Being Patient and Present

Summer. The season that doesn’t last nearly as long as I would like it to. The season I wait for all winter. And it goes by way too quickly. As I look towards fall I get a little angsty. The grieving of the season not even done yet. Why can’t I just settle and be … Continue reading Being Patient and Present

The Strength of Developer

What do you do when your world feels out of control but you have the strength of developer? You foster puppies, of course!  The strength of developer is defined as seeing the potential in others.  You see everything as having potential and being alive with possibilities.  You want to see others experience some bit of … Continue reading The Strength of Developer

Seeing Past the Pain

Art can tug at your heart.  It can capture an emotion, a time, or even a season.  When I saw this particular piece of art it was all of the above to me.  It captured my attention.  It took my breath away. This painting was what breast cancer looked and felt like in my life. … Continue reading Seeing Past the Pain

This is Our Story, Part Four

This is the fourth part of our story as written by Patrick Durand. After we informed our girls of the new diagnosis, I immediately felt relief from the constant tension I had felt over the preceding weeks. I had been so worried about how they would react to the news, particularly Emily, since she was … Continue reading This is Our Story, Part Four

This is Our Story, Part Three

This is part three of our story as written by Patrick Durand. We faced a situation we hadn’t remotely considered only three weeks prior – stage IV breast cancer.  And more specifically - death.  After the diagnosis, Melissa and I were in a complete daze; we could not concentrate on anything.  Our minds continuously processed … Continue reading This is Our Story, Part Three